Fabric!

[triskellian]

This afternoon's shopping trip with blondeccgirl culminated in the purchase of acres of beautiful silk dupion (that slightly bobbly silk - cruelty-free since it involves the death of no silkworms, according to M). It's scarlet shot with purple, so it mostly looks darkish red, and slightly shimmery. I have a small piece of it beside me as I type, and it's very lovely indeed. The trip was especially fun for seeing the slight double-take of the sales assistants on realising this was for a wedding dress, not a bridesmaid's dress: it seems that getting married in a colour other than white or ivory is still quite unusual.

secretrebel - there was also some rather gorgeous chiffon with embroidered butterflies, and I would have bought you some if it hadn't been £35 a metre. Sorry ;-)

Comments

[al-fruitbat.livejournal.com]

Interesting reasoning, but might you be ignoring the concept of 'ritual sacrifice' in human societies throughout the ages?

People construct these totems to signify the occasion and then destroy them (or never use them) so it will be unique. It's not that I disagree with your reasoning, but I am moved to ask - will you be especially careful with this dress if you wear it in the future? Will each occasion you wear it be somehow connected to its creation?

I for one can fully see the rationale behind putting such items 'beyond use'

[triskellian]

I do of course understand the reasoning behind having a special thing that's only worn for one day, and I may yet find that 'pull' stronger than the pull to enjoy it some more. I don't know.

Rationally, I'm in favour of enjoying a thing, no matter how 'special' it is, because even if you wreck it the first time you use it, you've had one more 'go' with it than if you'd left it in a drawer and just looked at it every now and again. Less rationally, I also feel that special things 'deserve' (in some obviously nebulous way) to be used for their purpose. A dress stops being a dress if it's not worn and loved, and it is no longer fulfilling its dressly destiny...

So the short answer is, I don't know yet, but thanks for making me think about it.

[triskellian]

Forgot to say... since it will be a separate bodice and skirt, I may well not wear them together again, and there will be other bits of the outfit that will together make up the thing I will think of as 'my wedding dress', and I certainly wouldn't recreate the whole thing for some random party.